Where have you been so long is what you ask - hospital and meds is my answer!! I got operated last month and was advised bed rest for quite some time. I resumed office last week and after settling down there I am all set to start writing for you guys again.
I always presumed being unwell is synonymous to loosing weight. I remember in my teens I secretly wished to fall ill just to loose that flab on the hip! And now when I am actually sick, the doc said I would gain about 7-8kgs because of the meds!! Now what kind of illness is this!! Totally not cool. As if I wasnt getting any fatter already. Moreover, mom n MIL being TOO careful do not leave an opportunity to feed me which I think will contribute to another 7-8kgs!! WHY ME GOD, WHY!! Alas! After a lot of counselling from papa I am finally accepting the bitter truth.
Why am I giving you such detailed updates? This is because anything can happen to anybody out of the blue. Have you come across moms taking extra extra care of their bride-to-be daughter? We'll, my mom was no exception. Honestly, I used to get bugged at times with "don't do this", "Avoid eating out", "no night outs", etc. But having seen so many brides falling sick a few days short to the wedding, I feel it is better to be safe than sorry. There are a few things in life we don't have control over. You just have to positively accept the fact! There is just no other option! Always remember a healthy bride is the best bride.
So what if ALL my first's (Dushera-engagement anniversaries-Diwali-the guy's birthday-n the upcoming wedding anniversary) are not being celebrated the way we (read: I) have imagined. We both have planned to celebrate all this next year like it's our first!!
I must say, the guy has been unimaginably supportive towards me and stayed with me throughout (More importantly leaving all his work aside). I got my feeling of being somebody's life partner when I was being moved to the OT. Not kidding at all!! I got that better-half wala feeling after being married to him for almost a year.
Well, I am not completely okay yet and hence havent started driving, which gives me more than an hour of evening cab ride for the blog - like old times. ;) I know I have a lot of queries pending. I will try to respond to them as soon as possible. I promise! Thank you so much for staying with me. I have seen that the blog hits have not reduced a bit when I was away. Keep supporting! I am so happy to finally get back to the blog!
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I always presumed being unwell is synonymous to loosing weight. I remember in my teens I secretly wished to fall ill just to loose that flab on the hip! And now when I am actually sick, the doc said I would gain about 7-8kgs because of the meds!! Now what kind of illness is this!! Totally not cool. As if I wasnt getting any fatter already. Moreover, mom n MIL being TOO careful do not leave an opportunity to feed me which I think will contribute to another 7-8kgs!! WHY ME GOD, WHY!! Alas! After a lot of counselling from papa I am finally accepting the bitter truth.
Why am I giving you such detailed updates? This is because anything can happen to anybody out of the blue. Have you come across moms taking extra extra care of their bride-to-be daughter? We'll, my mom was no exception. Honestly, I used to get bugged at times with "don't do this", "Avoid eating out", "no night outs", etc. But having seen so many brides falling sick a few days short to the wedding, I feel it is better to be safe than sorry. There are a few things in life we don't have control over. You just have to positively accept the fact! There is just no other option! Always remember a healthy bride is the best bride.
So what if ALL my first's (Dushera-engagement anniversaries-Diwali-the guy's birthday-n the upcoming wedding anniversary) are not being celebrated the way we (read: I) have imagined. We both have planned to celebrate all this next year like it's our first!!
I must say, the guy has been unimaginably supportive towards me and stayed with me throughout (More importantly leaving all his work aside). I got my feeling of being somebody's life partner when I was being moved to the OT. Not kidding at all!! I got that better-half wala feeling after being married to him for almost a year.
Well, I am not completely okay yet and hence havent started driving, which gives me more than an hour of evening cab ride for the blog - like old times. ;) I know I have a lot of queries pending. I will try to respond to them as soon as possible. I promise! Thank you so much for staying with me. I have seen that the blog hits have not reduced a bit when I was away. Keep supporting! I am so happy to finally get back to the blog!
Hi Aditi,
ReplyDeleteI have read ur blogs and i liked them very much. My wedding is on 28 Dec 2013. Could you please suggest best mehandi artists in Pune?
Actually I myself a good mehandi artist, so I like fine designs. Please help :)
Thank you Tejal. Congratulations on the wedding. I will try to find out some mehendi artists for you.
DeleteRecommended by a bride to be friend.. Delhi mehendi wale: 9561695599, 9158798361
DeleteGet well soon :) and really take care of yourself!!
ReplyDeleteThank you so much Neha.. :)
DeleteGet well soon and take care of yourself.. Dont worry about few pounds once you are back in good health you can always reduce and get back in shape. :)
ReplyDeleteThank you Shikha.. Hopefully!
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